Joy, Renewal, Resilience, Transformation
Move Forward from Trauma, Anxiousness, and Grief
Welcome!
Grief isn't a problem to be solved; Grief isn't just about loss; it's a profound experience to be transformed. Its origins are wide-ranging and can be combined with stress, anxious thoughts, trauma, or overwhelming unresolved emotions, to name a few.
I'm glad you stopped by. From my own experiences, I know the daunting feeling of not knowing where to turn. Through its many forms, grief has given me a lived and deep understanding. My own journey combined with my training, has shown me that healing is possible. I’m dedicated to helping you find your own path.
Healing is possible, no matter the cause of your sorrow — This is why I created a unique path for healing “The Phoenix Rising Way©”, a protocol to help you transform your grief to ‘Good Grief’, rebuild your life, emerge stronger with peace and purpose.
The best place to start is right here!
I’m Valerie Asher, thanks again for stopping by!
When Goodbyes Echo...
the silence left behind can feel deafening
Feeling alone, or struggling with self-doubt?
Find your confidence and inner strength.
Overwhelmed by sadness, grief, or loss?
Find peace and move forward.
Is emotional pain clouding your life?
Manage your stress, stressful thoughts, and past trauma.
Believing that experiencing joy is somehow unforgivable or a betrayal of the person or pet who has died?
Understand that healing and remembering can coexist, and allowing yourself moments of lightness does not diminish the love and loss you feel.
If you are ready for the possibility of finding emotional balance and freedom from grief: Let’s talk about your next steps
GOOD GRIEF:
Understanding Your Journey
It's OK to experience those strong emotions.
The opposite - becoming entangled in the pain - can keep you stuck.
Healthy reflection or harmful ruminating:
Understanding the difference is key.
Healthy reflection allows you a distanced perspective to organise and process your thoughts and feelings.
Rumination, however, is a repetitive, overwhelming cycle that keeps you trapped.
I can teach you how to cultivate healthy reflection.
The Uniqueness of Pet Loss GRIEF
The bond between you and your pet is unlike any other. Losing a cherished companion can leave a deep emptiness and profound grief.
This intense emotional response is real and can even manifest physically, with some pet owners experiencing "Broken Heart Syndrome," a temporary condition triggered by grief.
It's important to remember that you're not alone in this deep sorrow.
Many people underestimate the significant impact on both your emotional and physical well-being.
Healing doesn't mean forgetting your beloved companion; it means finding a way to carry their love with you while also allowing yourself to experience moments of joy and peace.
If you're struggling to cope, my Hypnosis process can be a powerful pathway to navigate your grief and find comfort and healing.
'The Phoenix Rising Way©'
for Pet Grief
Renewal, Rebirth, and Finding Strength After Loss
Your Companion's Compass for Healing
"There are a lot of skills and talents that make a great hypnotist, but rarely is there an opportunity to experience and speak to a hypnotist's resilience and flexibility the way I can for Valerie.
When my first experience of Valerie's hypnosis in a group went far from planned, she offered me the chance to work with her again personally. She listened to what went wrong the first time, and she distinctly adapted and tailored the session to my needs. The result? A profoundly positive experience, completely different than the first time. She fixed the issue at hand and so many more in just a few adjustments.
You shouldn't just pick Valerie, you should stick with Valerie. Even if things don't turn out right the first time (which they very much did for many others), she'll bounce right back and do amazing work the next time. Stay with her. You'll be happy you did."
~ Claire C.
• What did you like most? Powerful and Transformative.
• What could make it better? Nothing. Perfect.
• Testimonial: "Amazing to let go of all that grief that I didn't know I was holding. A unique, creative and power protocol for releasing grief and reminding of me to keep the wonderful memories."
• Summarizing Word: Powerful Protocol
~ Client - S.B.
"Valerie is incredibly talented and has a strong desire to assist people along their life’s journey. I had my first session with Valerie in late 2017 where I was able to gain a new perspective on my career and the path I knew I was meant to continue on.
More recently, I had a lingering fear that was creeping into my daily life. In a session I was able to experience even more skills she has developed. I have begun to feel more peace as a result. I love that Valerie is a life-long learner who continues to hone her skills. You will love the soothing tone of her voice and how easily she puts one at ease."
~ Teresa
• What did you like most? The language was perfect for me. Very inclusive - allowing the subject to use/choose what worked for their unconscious mind and whatever their situation was. Valerie's voice was perfect - just the right tone, timbre, soft and gentle and slow; excellent pacing. The imagery was deeply moving and all tied together beautifully. It's clear Valerie has put a lot of love and effort into this program.
• What could make it better? Nothing that I can think of - I thought it was perfect as a group session and will be even more amazing in a 1:1 setting.
• Testimonial: "This was the deepest, most profound experience I've ever had - in my entire life - for dealing with grief and the emotions surrounding it that I didn't even know I still had. Everyone has grief about someone or something, and everyone should have a session with Valerie. Everyone."
• Summarizing Word: Profound
~ Lisu
I provide a compassionate, safe and supportive environment, tailored to your unique needs, to help you rediscover joy and well-being in a healthy and sustainable way.
RAPPORT | SUPPORT | INSIGHT
These elements form the foundation of my approach, and serve to facilitate access to your inner strengths.
Take care of yourself and thrive.
Schedule Your Complimentary
'Where to Start' call today to learn more!
Imagine the benefits, how your life will improve for the better!
Take the next step, whether it's booking a call or contacting me via email.
Or
Are you looking to improve your well-being and yearning for inner peace?
My Unconscious Inner-Help Coaching can guide you to a calmer and more fulfilling life by harnessing the depths of your unconscious mind.
“You have considerable power to construct self-helping thoughts,
feelings and actions
as well as to construct self-defeating behaviours.
You have the ability,
if you use it,
to choose healthy instead of unhealthy thinking,
feeling and acting.”
~ Albert Ellis
Trauma can disrupt healthy brain connections, making it hard to move forward. Which means integration gets impaired. Want to restore a sense of well-being?
Feeling on edge and struggling to cope?
Does everyday life feel chaotic?
Manage anxious thoughts and stress, creating lasting change.
Bereavement manifests in remarkably diverse ways across individuals, and there are many forms of grief.
Only did you
know it can affect you physically as well as emotionally?
The loss of a treasured pet can leave us feeling heartbroken and lost. From the initial shock to the deep sadness, losing our companion can trigger a range of emotions.
Process your grief and find comfort.